I don’t even know where to start.
Tonight PA Man and I were sitting on the bed, watching a show on TV….we hadn’t talked anymore since our earlier “discussion”, which is nothing unusual…pretend it never happened, that’s the way he operates!
Anyway, son#4 comes into the room, and is standing there, watching TV and he’s “twitching” AKA jerking his head sideways, a OCD habit.
He’s been in therapy for OCD and anxiety for the last few months…and he’d been doing better, but the last few weeks he’s started up with these “habits” again.
I told him to stop, which is what his therapist has suggested, and he kept doing it, again, I told him to stop, and then PA Man, very harshly, says, “Stop it, you weirdo!!”
OMG!!! I was LIVID!!!! Absolutely LIVID!!! How DARE he??
I’M the one who is home 24/7 with this child, I’M the one who takes him to his therapy classes, I’M the one who talks to him and reasons with him when he’s feeling anxious, I’M the one researches and finds natural ways to deal with his anxiety, instead of drugging him up, which has been suggested by his therapist!
PA Man has gone to one, yes ONE therapy appt. with me…and he didn’t say a friggin word!
When David, MY sons therapist, finished questioning me about why I was bringing son#4 to counseling, he turned and looked at PA Man and asked him if he had any questions, or anything to add….and he said, “No, she’s about covered it.”
Thats it. He had nothing to add. How about, “Yes, I’m very concerned because our son was hitting his head against the wall last week, and said he couldn’t stop…that he HAD to do it…why was he doing that??”
But NO, he has NO questions!! JERK!!!
Anyway, I looked at PA Man and said, “THAT was very mean and uncalled for…you need to apologize!!”
And to be honest, I can’t remember if he did apologize, because I was seeing red by that time!
After son#4 left the room….I exploded! I told PA Man that that was a disgusting thing to say, that he hasn’t spent 10 mins with ANY of our boys all day long and how DARE he say that to him!!
I then forgot everything I’ve written on this blog, LOL, and just ripped into him!
I told him I don’t respect him, that this marriage is a marriage in name only, and he can expect NOTHING (sexual) from me ever again!! That all I am to him is a sperm depository anyway!! Yes, I actually said that!!
I also told him he IS his father all over again, and he should be ashamed of himself!!
That riled him up a bit. And he told me to leave his father put of it. Right. You can’t stand the man and yet you act just like him!! Fantastic!
Listen up…cheat on me, treat me like I’m invisible, walk away when I’m crying and need a strong pair of arms around me…I can deal with it….but DO NOT attack my kids!!
But never fear, dear readers, PA Man is just fine….he was asleep TEN minutes after I shut up!!
The man CLEARLY has NO conscience!! NONE!! And that became apparent tonight…more than ever.